How to lead a team through disagreements and problems.
February 28, 2024 - 12:00 AM

Every leader must learn how to handle conflicts, as they are inevitable when working with multiple people. How can you recognize a problem within your team, successfully resolve it, and guide the team toward its goals?
Conflict Is Not Always a Bad Thing
Conflicts can either enhance a company’s efficiency or prevent it from achieving its objectives. Disagreements, for example, can lead to greater efficiency and stronger connections among team members. By resolving conflicts, a leader can implement necessary changes that might not have been accepted under normal circumstances. However, conflicts can also have negative consequences, such as wasted energy spent on winning arguments, reduced judgment ability, and coordination difficulties.
What Causes Conflict?
Conflicts arise from individuals’ personality traits, relationships among team members, and misalignment between team goals and individual objectives. The most common reasons for disagreements include:
- Insufficient information
- Poor collaboration
- Unequal distribution of income
- Lack of competence among individuals
- Unclear task definitions
- Rigid work organization
- Poor discipline and order
- Lack of engagement from certain individuals
- Irresponsible behavior
Resolving and Preventing These Conflicts Is a Leader’s Responsibility
Leaders are responsible for the functioning and success of the team. This does not only mean delegating tasks and reporting achievements but also dealing with difficult situations. How should you approach them? No problem is as bad as it seems at first, and the same applies to human conflicts—you can prepare for conflict resolution.
When resolving a conflict, answer these four questions:
1. What are the symptoms of conflicts in the team?
Examples: tasks are not completed on time, tasks are not done properly, passive-aggressive behavior, absenteeism…
2. What is causing conflicts in the team?
Examples: poor communication, lack of conflict resolution skills, unclear team goals and roles, poor leadership, personal conflicts between team members, personal issues of a team member, insufficient external support for teamwork…
3. How should we address the conflict?
a) Define the problem
b) Gather data
c) Analyze the data
d) Choose the best solution
e) Implement the solution
4. What tools and support do we need to help the team handle conflicts quickly and effectively?
- Criticism should focus on the situation, not the person.
- Encourage diverse viewpoints and honest dialogue.
- Try to understand others' perspectives before expressing your own.
- Respect different opinions.
What You Should Never Do:
- Do not ignore the problem.
- Do not resolve the issue only on paper, meaning you acknowledge the conflict but take little action to address it.
- Do not resolve it superficially just to appease those involved while failing to address the root cause.
- Do not withhold information from team members, as this quickly leads to a loss of trust in leadership.
- Do not allow the majority to silence an individual who has a different perspective on the problem.
Disagreements within a team are inevitable. Do not fear them—approach them with confidence. Remember, conflicts can have positive outcomes.